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“If they get a strong reaction from their partner, then they’re even more hesitant to be open about that topic again.” THE STRATEGY: Make an appointment WHAT YOU CAN SAY: “I’ve been wanting to go over our monthly bills with you.
WHAT YOU CAN SAY: “My dad is thinking about retiring this year, and he wants my mom to retire with him. Then you can use the moment as a springboard to related topics or questions that hit at more personal issues.Is it possible that your spouse’s primary love language is quality time?Listen for Clues Quality time is a powerful emotional communicator of love. Just as one love language does not communicate emotionally to all people.Getting your partner to open up about those experiences, good and bad, can give you the best insight into how they view money and what their expectations are.” Hearing about family experiences can give you added perspective on your partner’s financial choices, or insight into why they may be reluctant to talk about money, says Ed Coambs, a marriage and family therapist.“”Maybe they’re quiet because they grew up in a household that never talked about money, not because they’re hiding thousands in debt.” THE STRATEGY: Pose a hypothetical question.